When you are more, am I less?
When you are stronger, am I weaker?
When you flourish, do I become poorer?
Around the world today, we see that our identities have become competitive and conflictual. We construct our identities by defining (1) who we’re against, (2) how we’re superior, and (3) the struggle for dominance. This is identity by negation and a recipe for war.
The irony is that these apparently “strong” identities are actually weak. They are rooted in fear, poverty, and envy.
What I cherish about neighbor-love and the common good is that they energize positive, mutually enriching identities of hope.
When you are more, I am more.
When you are stronger, I am stronger.
When you flourish, I am enriched.
Loving my neighbor as my self means wishing for them what I wish for my self – love, justice, and flourishing. Here our good becomes common, something shared and mutually strengthening.
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